
Without a theme, your party can become a disorganized mess. But with a theme, you’ve got yourself a coordinated good time. Not only does having a theme make it ten times easier to plan decorations, gifts, party games, and events, but it’s also the glue that holds the bachelorette party together.
Whether you’re wanting to take the more traditional route of bachelorette party themes like bar-hopping and getting a stripper, or you’re looking to tone things down with a classy and elegant tone, there are plenty of themes that will fit your group and your bride.
Don’t know where to start? Party Planning Solutions has your back! We’ve got plenty of themes to choose from that your friends will love!
Plus, we have several tips and tricks to help you narrow down what your theme should be.
How to Pick the Right Bachelorette Party Theme

Ask your Guests and Know the Bride
One simple way to help narrow down the bachelorette party theme is to first ask your party attendees what their thoughts are. All of you know the bride, so what better group to brainstorm some ideas with?
When thinking up ideas keep in mind hobbies and activities that the bride likes to do. If she’s someone who loves karaoke and dive bars, then a Pub Crawl theme might be the way to go.
However, if she’s more laid back and relaxed, perhaps a spa day would better fit her fancy. Just remember, that the party is for her, so in the end, she’s the one you want to please with the theme.
Still Struggling? Try the Rule out Method
If the time is drawing near and you’re still struggling with a theme, one good idea to try is the rule out method.
Instead of thinking of ideas that the bride will like, try to rule out things that the bride will definitely not like.
This might seem counterproductive, but it actually can really help. By ruling out what the bride will not want, you can get a better focus on the things that she will want. Especially if you’re hitting a dead end, this method definitely doesn’t hurt your odds. 🙂
Now that we’ve given you a couple ways to help narrows down your party theme lists, let’s take a look at some potential themes for the bride-to-be!
Relaxed Bachelorette Party Themes
Looking for more of a laid back bachelorette party?

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These themes are perfect for a bride who is low maintenance and has a go-with-the-flow attitude.
- Bachelorette Brunch
- Bachelorette Slumber Party
- Spa Day Celebration
- Cooking Party
- Bachelorette Beach Bash
- Pool Party
- Fondue Night
- Makeover Party
- Crafting Celebration
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Fun Themes for Bachelorette Festivities
If you’re wanting a theme that has a little more direction and makes decorations easy and fun, then themes are just the ticket.

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Whether you go classy Lady in Red or take on an Ugly Bridesmaid dress theme, these ideas are sure to be a hit!
- Something Blue Theme
- She’s Getting Hitched Western Theme
- Honeymoon Theme
- Sex in the City Theme
- Mexican Fiesta Theme
- Pin Up Model Theme
- Gold and Diamonds Bling Theme
- Lady in Red Theme
- Rockabilly Party
- Murder Mystery Theme
- Great Gatsby Theme
- Alice in Wonderland Theme
- Mermaid Party Theme
- Ugly Bridesmaid Dress Theme
- Parisian Party Theme
- Lavish Luau Theme
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Bachelorette Party Themes for Boozy Babes
If you’ve got a drinker in your midst then there’s no question what your theme should be, it’s more of a question of what the drinks should be. 😉
- Wine Tasting Party
- Beer Garden Bash
- Pub Crawl Party
- Martini Theme
- Clubbing Celebration
XXX Bachelorette Themes
If you’ve got a bride that blushes easily then steer clear. These themes aren’t for the faint of heart.
But if you’re looking for a theme to get your blood pumping and your heart pounding, then you’ve come to the right place.
- Male Strip Club Soiree
- Bachelors in the Buff Bash
- Lingerie Shower
- Fifty Shades of Grey Theme
- Pecker Party
- Playboy Bunny Theme
- Pole Dance Party
- Burlesque Bash
- Boudoir Bachelorette Party
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Classy Bachelorette Party Themes

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Wanting a bachelorette party with timeless elegance and classy style? Look no further!
These themes will bring out the Audrey Hepburn in all of us!
- Tea Party Theme
- Little Black Dress Theme
- Kentucky Derby Theme
- Dinner Cruise Theme
- Country Club Celebration
- Breakfast at Tiffany’s Theme
- Kate Spade Inspired Theme

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Good for Some Laughs Themes
If you’ve got a jokester for a bride, create some belly laughs with these laughable themes.
- Catch A Comedy Show or Festival
- Roast the Bride to Be Theme
Activity Based Bachelorette Party Themes
Do you have an outdoorswoman in your midst? Consider bringing some motion to your bachelorette party with the activity based themes.
- Glamping Theme
- Hiking Theme
- Rock-Climbing Theme
- Yoga Theme
- AquaMermaid Theme
Destination Bachelorette Party Themes

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Are you hitting the road? Set your theme around your destination and let the party begin!
- Viva Las Vegas
- Canadian, Eh?
- Cottage Chill Out
- Hit the Slopes Chalet
- Mardi Gras Mayhem
- Beach House Blowout
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Tame, Clean & Christian Themes for a Bachelorette Party (No Strippers! No Booze!)
Trying to keep the party clean and fun? These are some great theme options for a bride who’s looking to stay pure before the wedding night.
- Blessings Bash
- Karaoke Bachelorette Party
- Bachelorette High Tea
- Garden Party
Sound the Party Horns!
There you have it! With all these theme ideas and helpful tidbits, picking a theme for the bachelorette party should take no time at all!pin these 60+ Bachelorette Party Themes for later!
